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Scripture Pondering for Change

January 28th, 2012 by hollyberry

How do you solve the dilemma of feeling a lack or weakness in an area of your life? We’ve learned as Christians that we are not really to go by what we think or feel but by the Word of God, so we pray. But if persistent prayer has not completely conquered this weakness yet, what can we do?

While discussing this with my husband one morning, I told him the only thing that ever worked for me in combination with prayer was to meditate and ponder a scripture until it becomes part of you. Here is what I do. Focus on the area or quality you want to improve. Find a verse with the desired result and paste it to the area of need as the remedy. By that I mean, every time I am faced throughout my day with this insufficiency, I ask the Holy Spirit to make a change in me according to this verse in this area.
I began to recall every breakthrough that had come my way through this method and recited them to my husband. When I pondered John 8:32, (You will know the truth and the truth will set you free), God revealed what I needed to do for Him to set me free at that time. I was to get rid of all offenses or unforgiveness, even things not my fault. Next, I pondered Rom. 8:28 about turning things for good and God turned a difficult situation into salvation for another, Rom. 8:1 reminded me there is no condemnation in Christ, don’t receive it from another, John 12:32 reminded me to honor Christ and He will draw people to Himself through us, I John 3:1 gave me a deposit of His love that I would never doubt again despite my past, I Cor. 1:5 that I have all I need for speaking and knowledge because of my testimony in Him, Eph. 6:19 that I will be given words to fearlessly make known His gospel, John 14:26 that the Holy Spirit will teach me what I need to know and remind me of everything He has already taught me. Whether the verse delivered courage, love, confidence, boldness, honor, or understanding; each gave a desired result. This process may take a week or even a month of pressing in and ruminating over a scripture and asking God for belief for this new strength.

What do you need? What areas need fortitude or revelation? Find the verse that answers that question in your life. Meditate on it day and night until it becomes alive and active in your life. When God’s Word goes out, it does not return empty but accomplishes what He desires and achieves the purpose for which He sends it. (Is. 55:11) As you keep your focus and draw close, remember that whatever you ask in faith, He will do it for you.

Pursuing God

January 9th, 2012 by hollyberry

Pursuing God

In our pursuit of God, we find ourselves. Although we can be and do all things in Christ, without abiding in Him, we can do nothing. We must acknowledge our “wormhood” before we can be transformed into a butterfly. God never intended us to perfect ourselves. The dichotomy is this-the more we realize the truth of our flaws and vulnerability, the more we know we must depend on God’s spirit to work through us. Then the focus is shifted to more of Him-we must become less.
Since God knows just how He made us and how we can best serve Him to be fulfilled, the best expression of ourselves is when He shines through us, joyfully doing what we are made to be- a unique expression of His personality. A confidence arises in the fact that He who began a good work in us will carry it to completion.
C.S. Lewis states in “Till We All Have Faces,”
“We must die before we die, and the kingdom life arises anew.” God makes all things new, a far superior life than we were leading.

I John 3:2 Beloved we are God’s children; Now what we shall be has not yet been revealed.

In our pursuit of God, we find ourselves. Holly Smith

When God Is All You Have

December 24th, 2011 by Johnson Chukwuma

Building confidence in GodDon't forget He's with you

It’s very easy to walk confidently- with your head and shoulders high- when you have a good stash of money in the bank.

When you’re depth free.

When you have good insurance.

When you have wealthy parents.

When you’re married and have a good paying job.

When you’re related to a millionaire or a celebrity.

There’s a proverb in my native tongue that says,

“Aku n’esi obi ike.”

It means,

“Wealth/Success makes the heart strong”.

This proverbs is similar to what is revealed in the book of Proverbs:

“The wealth of the rich is their fortified city; they imagine it an unscalable wall.” (Proverbs 18:11).

But my question for you today is, what if God is all you have?

Nothing much in the bank.

Living in debt.

Little or no substantial educational qualification.

Out of job – coupled with parents that are virtually dependent on you.

Will you still be confident?

Will you still walk confidently with your shoulders high?

I really don’t know if you will still… But I know that you can still …

God is not enough reason to be confident. He is more than enough reason to be confident.

I once had a young lady tell me, “You are too bold!”

I really didn’t see that statement coming. Guess it was because according to the world’s standard, I had no reason to be confident, especially at that point in my life when there was nothing much to show materially.

But I had a word from God installed in my heart from whence my confidence emanates:

“Have no fear of sudden disaster or of the ruin that overtakes the wicked, for the LORD will be your confidence and will keep your foot from being snared.” (Proverbs 3:25-26).

My confidence did not come from a bank account that is subject to the evil forces of the universe. Neither did it come from any material possession that is subject to destruction.

My confidence came from the only wise God.

An indestructible God.

My confidence came from a target that can’t be hit!

I’m talking about a God whose wealth and splendor is unimaginable.

Putting your confidence in this only true God implies that anyone who wants to tamper with your self esteem will have to dethrone God first. Good luck with that… :)

However, putting your confidence in God is not something that happens by chance. It’s something that you’ll needs to take certain deliberate steps to put into place through continuous – prayer, meditation on God’s word/promises, and fellowship with the brethren.

The world also has a standard for confidence.

But the world’s standard for confidence is too inferior both for humanity generally and particularly for us as heirs of a superior Kingdom.

Operating with the substandard standard of the world has signed many up for suicide, violent dis-contentment. And will leave us violated, empty, frustrated, depressed, and disillusioned with life.

If millionaires and celebrities are committing suicide, fighting depression, and battlling all sorts of addiction in a futile quest for joy and peace of mind, why do people still believe that attaining a similar status will give them the desired fulfillment? Guess the lawn still looks greener on the other side huh?

Simply put; as a human and especially as a beliver, embracing the world’s standard of success is like trying to install a Microsoft Windows 7 software into a Windows 95′ operating system hardware. That’s only going to crash both the software and the hardware.

God’s people are alarmingly – falling for the world’s flashy toys: “My people have committed two sins: They have forsaken me, the spring of living water, and have dug their own cisterns, broken cisterns that cannot hold water.” (Jeremiah 2:13).

This post is for all those who feel they have – had a terrible year. People who falsely feel worthless as a result of their lack of material possession. Especially at this evaluative and comparative time of the year. My message to you is; “Turn back to God- away from the world’s empty cisterns because God is more than enough for you”.

I want to remind you that you are worth the life of God. All God had – could not pay for you. God literally had to turn Himself in to bail you out, to earn a place in your life. This is a virtually neglected part of the gospel of the birth and death of Jesus Christ.

I also want to let you know that, “No matter what happened-happens this year, don’t be afraid of next year because God is already there, and He’s on your side.

Cash is not king…

Jesus is king! …and this Jesus – lives in you.

Have a blessed Christmas and New Year celebration!

Merry Christmas | They Called Him Jesus

December 22nd, 2011 by Michelle Bentham

Praying your Christmas is full of love, joy, peace and all the blessings of Christ follow you into the coming new year. Much love, Deep Breathers!

M

[Original Mixed Media on Paper, (Pencil and Ink) (C) Michelle Bentham, 2011. "They Called Him Jesus," All rights reserved. www.michellebenthamcreates.org]

Here’s My Christmas Card For You

December 18th, 2011 by Colleen Foshee

The Last Shall Be First

December 15th, 2011 by Lisa Ramsey


It continues to amaze me how God shows up in my day to day life. I’m thankful for His presence and His instruction, even His rebuke. I don’t like rebuke of course. But I know how much He cares for me and how much He is shaping me into some form that can be of greater and greater use to Him.

Proverbs 15:31-32 says:
He whose ear listens to the life-giving reproof will dwell among the wise.

Recently my 11 year old son Jack auditioned for a community kid’s play. It’s kind of a big deal in our neighborhood, all the buzz, lots of kids that try out and several of my son’s friends participating. My son is a sports nut so I really liked the fact that he was interested in pursuing something more artistic. He admired seeing his friends in previous plays and I think that really drew his interest. Also, the idea of getting to hang out with pals at rehearsals sounded good to him.

It was Jack’s first time trying out. If you get an audition, you are guaranteed some sort of role. It’s very popular in our town so they have 3 separate casts. They go through a complicated process of trying to assign kids to different casts and roles, accommodating factors such as skills and talents, physical appearance, interactions, friend requests, sports or other activities overlapping etc. I’m sure it’s very daunting.

On the audition form, there is a space to request a friend that your child wants to be in the play with. It’s says right there on the form that there is no guarantee that this will be accommodated, but since Jack had 5 friends auditioning, I figured there would be no problem. Fun time with friends at rehearsals was part of the reason for pursuing the experience. I figured he would end up with at least one of his friends.

It didn’t happen. We didn’t recognize a single name in his cast list.

And worse than that, all of the 5 friends we listed ended up together in the same cast. A different cast. When he found out, I could see that he was hurt before he had a chance to cover it up. Afterwards, he told me it was fine but I knew that it really wasn’t.

I had heard a few things during the selection process about phone calls going around, talking about options for various kids, whether they could or could not do certain roles , casts etc. But we had never heard from anybody.
My resentment started to build. I was feeling angry over the fact that I had given them 5 options, not just 1 or 2 and they could not accommodate a single one of them? I know better but I started thinking and stewing in a bad pattern. Thinking the way the world thinks.

“This isn’t fair. I need to go stick up for my kid. The squeaky wheel gets the grease around here. We paid our money just like everybody else. I need to push to the front of the line and advocate for him or Jack is going to suffer for it. Other kids have been fully accommodated but he hasn’t been given a second thought. I’m going to send an email…”

That’s when I heard from God. Short and sweet but very clear.

“The last shall be first, and the first shall be last”.

Huh?

“The last shall be first, and the first shall be last”.

I recognized that I was hearing scripture. I was trying to pinpoint it.

I remembered that it was a scripture about the 12 disciples of Jesus arguing amongst themselves about who was the greatest. (Mark 9:33) They were doing it behind Jesus’ back but he read their minds and asked them what they had been talking about. They didn’t want to answer him. But Jesus called them all together and told them “If anyone wants to be first, he must be the very last, and the servant of all”.

I reflected on the fact that humility is a very important virtue in the Kingdom of God and in His service. In God’s economy, the lowly are lifted up and the proud are humbled. Those who push to the front of the line are not following God’s direction. They are selfishly seeking for their own gain…or their son’s :-) …and usually at the expense of others. And God doesn’t honor or approve that. I should have known better than to start down that path. This was really about me and not about Jack.

Those who gratefully and humbly receive what God gives them, usually end up receiving more than they ever asked for or imagined. That’s the way of the Kingdom of God.

But that wasn’t it. I knew there was something else.

I went to the scriptures to look up the passage I had heard.

To my surprise, I found it in 3 other places in the Bible. But one of those passages spoke directly to me about this issue.

Matthew 20 is an odd parable where Jesus spoke about a group of vineyard workers for hire. They all agree to work for a certain wage if they are hired. Some are hired in the morning, some are hired at midday, and some are hired just before work’s end in the evening. But all are paid the same sum. The ones hired in the morning complain to the employer that this is not fair and that they should receive more pay. But the employer says to them “Why are you complaining? You agreed to work for this wage. What does it have to do with you if I choose to be generous to the others? Don’t be envious of my generosity to them.” It ends with: “And so the last will be first, and the first will be last.”

In other words, sometimes it will work out for others and not for us. It won’t feel equitable or fair. Others will get what we feel like we deserve and we won’t get it.

We should not complain when that happens. We should gratefully receive what the Lord HAS given us. And we should be happy for other people when good things happen to them or when they are a recipient of another’s generosity or favor, even when we are not.

God will bless us if we do that. It’s the way of the Kingdom of God.

Swallowing hard. And saying….Yes Lord.

Sorry Lord.

And looking forward to what God has in mind for Jack with regard to “that other cast”.

I have a feeling it’s going to be something special.

Thanks Be To God!

November 25th, 2011 by Lisa Ramsey

I’m thankful tonight for the Most High God and for His son Jesus Christ. I’m thankful for His mercy and compassion and for the great love He has for His people. I’m thankful that He has a heart for the broken people and is moved with compassion for them such that He wants to heal them, fix their brokenness. He wants to come near them, love them, shower His mercy and compassion over them.

Willing Healer, Loving Father, Righteous Ruler over ALL.

I AM THANKFUL FOR SUCH A GREAT AND AWESOME GOD.

Thanks Living for Thanksgiving

November 21st, 2011 by Michelle Bentham

<a href=”http://deepbreathministries.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/woman-free.bmp”>Whatever happens, give thanks, because it is God’s will in Christ Jesus that you do this.~ 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (God’s Word)

I have chosen to go back to the original passage that this Scripture is found in because I believe we find several keys to “thanks living.” (NOTE: This is a long post, my speciality :o ). Please hang on with me until the end.)
Shall we take a look?
KEYS TO THANKS LIVING: (1 Thessalonians 5:16-24)
Key 1: Be Happy In Your Faith.
Be happy [in your faith] and rejoice and be glad-hearted continually (always); (v. 16)
In the Greek the word chairo is translated ”rejoice” in verse 16. It is defined in Strong’s Hebrew and Greek Dictionary as “a primary verb; to be “cheer”ful, i.e. calmly happy or well-off; impersonal especially as salutation (on meeting or parting), be well :- farewell, be glad, God speed, greeting, hail, joy (-fully), rejoice.—Strong’s Talking Greek & Hebrew Dictionary”
 
Vine’s demonstrates all the occasion for which one is commended to rejoice in it’s definition:
“to rejoice,” is most frequently so translated. As to this verb, the following are grounds and occasions for “rejoicing,” on the part of believers:
1. in the Lord, (Phil. 3:1; Phil. 4:4)
2. His incarnation, (Luke 1:14)
3. His power, (Luke 13:17)
4. His presence with the Father, (John 14:28)
5. His presence with them, (John 16:22; John 20:20)
6. His ultimate triumph, (John 8:56)
7. hearing the gospel, (Acts 13:48)
8. their salvation, (Acts 8:39)
9. receiving the Lord, (Luke 19:6)
10. their enrollment in Heaven, (Luke 10:20)
11. their liberty in Christ, (Acts 15:31)
12. their hope, (Rom. 12:12) (cp. Rom. 5:2; Rev. 19:7)
13. their prospect of reward, (Matt. 5:12)
14. the obedience and godly conduct of fellow believers, (Rom. 16:19, RV, “I rejoice” (AV, “I am glad”) 2 Cor. 7:7, 9; 2 Cor. 13:9; Col. 2:5; 1 Thess. 3:9; 2 John 1:4; 3 John 1:3)
15. the proclamation of Christ, (Phil. 1:18)
16. the gospel harvest, (John 4:36)
17. suffering with Christ, (Acts 5:41; 1 Pet. 4:13)
18. suffering in the cause of the gospel, 2 Cor. 13:9 (1st part); Phil. 2:17 (1st part); (Col. 1:24)
19. in persecutions, trials and afflictions, (Matt. 5:12; Luke 6:23; 2 Cor. 6:10)
20. the manifestation of grace, (Acts 11:23)
21. meeting with fellow believers, (1 Cor. 16:17, RV, “I rejoice;” Phil. 2:28)
22. receiving tokens of love and fellowship, (Phil. 4:10; the “rejoicing” of others, Rom. 12:15; 2 Cor. 7:13)
23. learning of the well-being of others, (2 Cor. 7:16.)
(Emphasis and enumeration added)
So my question becomes: Do I live happy in my faith in every one of these circumstances. The Bible gives us twenty-three specific instances where we are to be happy in our faith, rejoicing and glad-hearted. I’m good with that list until I get to 17, 18 and 19. I can be thankful for those circumstances, but happy and glad-hearted about them. Not so much. And then the passage gives us the trump card: In the amplified the word is translated ”continually” but in the Greek the literal translation is “every when.” Which is translated in the KJV: “evermore.” Are you Happy and Glad-hearted in your faith always, continually and evermore? As for me, I’m going to have to work on that. Our faith will sustain us – we must realize this to be Thanks Livers.
Key 2: PRAY PERSEVERINGLY.
Be unceasing in prayer [praying perseveringly]; (v. 17)
Persevering Prayer. Like the praise and prayer that went up when Paul and Silas were in the prison and the earth shook, the walls broke and the doors clanged open free. Like the prayer that Nehemiah prayed even as he spoke his heart before the king. HMMM!
Persevering, prevailing, powerfully unceasing prayer. That is what I think of in this case. Our prayers will give us endurance when we believe by faith we have what we ask for. As I read this and consider how it applies to Thanks Living, I think of Justin’s last year of life. I had prayed… prayed… and prayed… even asking God if I was praying for the wrong things. I was given Philippians 1:6 by a friend for Justin and instructed to pray that God would continue and complete the good work that He began in Justin at Salvation – so I did. Night and day, in tears and with the laying on of hands… If you can imagine a way to pray it I did. I prayed it in groups, wrote it into prayer requests, I prayed. But, when fall of 2004 gave way to winter and winter to spring, the roller coaster ride of emotional and behavioral highs and lows went into overdrive.
The entire process of watching my oldest child self-destruct up close and personal was not only devestating, it was defeating. But I held on, I prayed harder – if that is possible. I went face down, on my knees and any which way that the Bible indicates to pray. For heaven’s sake I would have prayed to the North, South, East and West if I thought it would help God hear my prayers. I was more than desperate – I needed a lifeline for me and my son.
 
Beth Moore’s “Living Beyond Yourself” was on my plate that spring as life spun continually out of control. I was hanging on by a thread. In the lesson one night was a representational response to prayer: the instruction was to write our most ardent prayer request, the one we take continually before the Lord, on an index card. I didn’t even have to think: “JUSTIN.” That was all I wrote.
The next part, thank Him for the answer by faith in advance. … O.K.A.Y. I lifted my index card to heaven and thanked God for hearing those prayers I had offered for my son, and acting on them providing the answers in His perfect time. The conclusion: Each time I felt the burden to pray for that request, thank God for the coming answer instead. And I did…
After we had him arrested, I thanked God all the more.
When he ran away, I thanked God all the more.
When the police were at our house, I thanked God all the more.
Sitting outside the justice’s chamber while my son sat a bench away in handcuffs I thanked God all the more.
I thanked God and thanked God and thanked Him for my son, his life, the future He promised Justin.
I thanked Him for the answer and believed by faith I had what I asked for – and then the accident happened.
And in the midst of the almost hour long drive to the hospital not knowing how my son was doing, whether or not he would live or die… I began to pray and praise God all at the same time. I thanked Him my son was still alive and asked only that he remain alive until I get to the hospital. I thanked God for successful surgery, and for the surgeons who operated on him that first night. I thanked Him for getting my son on the helicopter and taking him to the #2 trauma center in North Texas. I thanked Him.
On the day my son died I thanked God for having mercy and making it sure. I thanked God for the life of my son and the 17 precious years I had with him. I thanked God. And, somehow on that day when I could not thank God for the financial blessing of an insurance check – I asked, “How is Justin dying a part of you blessing us? God, I don’t understand.” Philippians 1:6 began to roll around in my head, dusting off the corners of my memory and resurrecting that faith that prayed it all those months before. I heard in my spirit that day, “It is not the money, but that Justin is now Complete. He was made perfect the day he came home to heaven.” And I praised Him through tears and through anguish I praised Him for every detail of my grief until today I can count myself blessed for the privilege of suffering in this way, for knowing the heart of God through agony and for seeing His hand in spite of the pain. Thanks living…
Key 3: Thank God In EVERYTHING No Matter What The Circumstances May Be.
Thank [God] in everything [no matter what the circumstances may be, be thankful and give thanks], for this is the will of God for you [who are] in Christ Jesus [the Revealer and Mediator of that will]. (v.18)
 
Before my son’s last few years of life, before that deep relationship with God was built… I don’t think I knew what it meant to be thankful. I was grateful for things that benefited me and despised experiences that did not.
When Justin’s life went beyond my ability to control, manage and define it… I had to depend utterly and solely on God for the well-being of my child. Then I became grateful for the smallest victories and even for the lessons learned in the most agonizing defeats. The war was fought long and hard and in unconventional ways. It hurt, spiritually I felt like our entire family must have bled out (spiritually) a few times, but somehow God sustained us and even now the good outweighs the bad in those volatile and turbulent years.
Cultivating Gratitude in the smaller battle made my heart able to rejoice, to be not just grateful but truly THANKFUL (not just going through the motions of thanksgiving but really meaning it from your heart in any and every circumstance), even in spite of the circumstance, and being gracious even as I walked out the death of my child – my worst confessed fear.
 
Key 4: Walk In The Spirit Every Day.
Do not quench (suppress or subdue) the [Holy] Spirit;(v.19)
Galatians 5 strikes me always as the Holy Spirit chapter and towards the end of that chapter you read about life in the flesh versus life in the Spirit. Quenching the Spirit involves any one or all the matters our flesh, (really our soulish behavior demonstrates). This is behavior driven by our pre-salvation will and desires, our unchecked emotions and our intellectual minds.
Living by the Spirit is a conscious choice to stay vitally connected to the Lord at all times. It means not letting sin go unchecked, but being intentional in confession. Naming sins rather than blanket confessing them, and then appropriating the forgiveness God has already settled our accounts with. Confession is one of the most freeing things in our Christian walk, because it reopens the door between us and God and allows the Spirit to flow unhindered into our hearts, our souls and our minds. The Spirit of God is the only way God administeres the Freedom that Christ came to deliver to us as His children. We must seek to walk in the Spirit everyday.
Key 5: It Doesn’t Depend On Me.
Do not spurn the gifts and utterances of the prophets [do not depreciate prophetic revelations nor despise inspired instruction or exhortation or warning].(v.20)
Despising things we don’t understand is a huge way to quench the Spirit. Knowing that the gifts and call of the Lord do not rest upon my understanding of them frees me from judgments and calloused behavior toward Christians of different denominations. It also gives me understanding of limitations and the guiding of the Holy Spirit and the call of God. I am not advocating here the gifts of prophecy and “utterances” (speaking gifts) – I recognize that we each must come to our own understanding of the administration of the giftings in the New Testament and the call of God upon our individual lives.
My personal preferences and opinions matter little when weighed against the infallibility of God’s Word. Even if I do not cognitively agree with or prefer the teacher who is speaking on a matter of Scripture, I can be like the Bereans and examine everything against what I know to be true, God’s Written Word – the Holy Bible – and ask the Holy Spirit to give me wisdom in discerning whether what I am engaging is of Him or of something else.
It is our responsibility not to base our assessment of God’s calling, giftings and Scripture circumspectly on the teachings of other men, no matter how credentialled or scholarly – we must test it all which brings me to Key 6.
Key 6: We Must Prove ALL Things Against God’s Standard – His Word. Holding Fast only to what His Standard says is GOOD.
But test and prove all things [until you can recognize] what is good; [to that] hold fast. (v21)
All Scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness, 17 that the man of God may be complete, thoroughly equipped for every good work. ~ 2 Timothy 3:16-17 (NKJV)
Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word of truth. ~ 2 Timothy 2:15 (NIV)
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God. ~ Romans 12:2 (NKJV)
These three Scriptures indicate a personal relationship that involves more than submitting yourself to the teachers of the Word you subscribe to. It indicates a personal relationship born of meting out the Word of God for yourself. Comparing what you are taught with what is true and discarding anything that does not resonate with the Word of God itself, regardless of whether the one teaching has authority and credentials. It doesn’t mean tearing down another’s ministry, but it does mean not staking your sole response to God and His Word on the teaching and reliability of human interpretation. We must be groomed for godliness and that comes from God’s Word, taught, caught and applied.
Key 7: Avoid Willful Sin And Flee Temptation.
Abstain from evil [shrink from it and keep aloof from it] in whatever form or whatever kind it may be. (v22)
We are to be innocent of evil and experts in what is good. How can we know that ourselves if we never ever open God’s Word and discern from it what His Will is? There are more than ten standards of “Hebrew Law.” All of Leviticus, Numbers and Deuteronomy overview and outline the extent and the consequence of God’s Law. But, what of the Law of Grace, and atonement. How do we avoid the sin of pride and piety that so plagued the Pharisees in Jesus’ day. By exercising mercy toward others who are caught in sin – love the sinner, hate the sin and applying any judgment or measure of justice we deem necessary to absolve sin toward ourselves… then CONFESS IT to God in humility and ask Him to make you contrite and repentent over your sin.
“”Judge not, that you be not judged. 2 For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you. 3 And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye? 4 Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye’; and look, a plank is in your own eye? 5 Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” ~ Matthew 7:1-5 (NKJV)
Galatians says it this way: ”Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. 2 Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. 3 For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. 4 But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. 5 For each one shall bear his own load. ” ~ Galatians 6:1-5 (NKJV)
And for good measure, here is the word I love: ”He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you but to do justly, and to love kindness and mercy, and to humble yourself and walk humbly with your God?” ~ Micah 6:8 (AMP)
Do justly in my own heart, towards myself and love mercy toward others… I love this passage of Scripture.
Key 8: Be Set Apart, Sanctified by God Himself.
And may the God of peace Himself sanctify you through and through [separate you from profane things, make you pure and wholly consecrated to God]; and may your spirit and soul and body be preserved sound and complete [and found] blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ (the Messiah). (v. 23)
Santification has its work in setting us apart when we submit ourselves fully to God through Salvation, Confession, Repentence, Discipleship or Instruction, Ministry and Relationship or Fellowship with both God and His People. He finds us blameless when we surrender ourselves and allow ourselves to be cloaked in the righteousness of Christ for in and of ourselves there is none righteous, no not one. Only Christ who gave Himself to be righteousness for us and in turn made us His righteousness before God. His righteousness preserves us blameless before the Lord. Be sanctified, set apart for the purposes of God through and through.
Key 9: Trust God To Finish The Work In You. (See Also Philippians 1:6)
Faithful is He Who is calling you [to Himself] and utterly trustworthy, and He will also do it [fulfill His call by hallowing and keeping you]. (v. 24)
He alone is faithful and trustworthy to finish all that He has called us to, all He has gifted us for and anything and everything in between. It doesn’t depend on you – It all depends on Him.
 
In conclusion I would like to reaffirm Romans 12:1-3:
 
Brothers and sisters, in view of all we have just shared about God’s compassion, I encourage you to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, dedicated to God and pleasing to him. This kind of worship is appropriate for you. 2 Don’t become like the people of this world. Instead, change the way you think. Then you will always be able to determine what God really wants—what is good, pleasing, and perfect. 3 Because of the kindness that God has shown me, I ask you not to think of yourselves more highly than you should. Instead, your thoughts should lead you to use good judgment based on what God has given each of you as believers. (God’s Word)

Spotlight on Courage

November 17th, 2011 by SjSchafer

Delia


The dictionary defines “courage” as mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty.


One thing that I have observed about courage is that you don’t really know what it means until you need it.


Another thing is that courage means different things to different people.

Recently, the word “courage” has come to mean something new to me.


My daughter, Delia, and I were shot at close range by a deranged man wielding a handgun.

In the moment that I saw my beautiful daughter do a complete 360 degree flip in the air, and fall down on her back. . .  as I watched the shooter point the gun at her head, again and announce that he was about to kill her. . . I did not take the time to wonder about the degree of courage that it would take to save her life.

Actually, it took a moment for me to even register what was happening.

I am sure it was milliseconds, but it seemed like eons.

Time stood still.

I was in total shock… as was she.


It is amazing that at times like these, a thousand things run through your mind in a split second.

In that moment, I remember hearing -inside my head- a phrase that I had heard,”This is how tragedies occur.”

I remember having a fleeting thought that we could both be killed.

Then, I told myself to RUN.


I put myself in your hands, Lord


Somehow, I managed to get between her and her assailant, trying feverishly to distract him, to make him leave. . .

or do anything to keep him from shooting her again.

Out of surprise more than anything else I guess, he jumped aside.

Now, the fact that he had two people to cover, kept him from being able to concentrate on killing her as he planned.

Ironically, I had just recently attended a workshop on dealing with difficult situations, and all of that just flew right out of my head.

I started screaming at him, thinking that if I startled and shocked him enough, it might make him feel like he had lost control of the situation and leave.

I wanted to force him to think of the enormity of what he had done.

Meanwhile, he was just rambling on dementedly, about how he wanted to kill her and kill himself.

He just wouldn’t go.


As I screamed at him to leave, I took the chance of pushing my way past him to get my phone from my purse, which was around the corner, on the floor.

 

I knew that I couldn’t wait any longer to act.

 


As I brushed past him, out of the corner of my eye, I saw the gun jerk up, point at my chest,

his burning eyes never left my face..

He didn’t aim or even flinch…

As he shot me.

About an inch from my chest, a few inches from my heart.

About an inch from the under wire in my bra.

The bullet hit my under wire, traveling another couple inches down into my flesh…but the under wire held.

Absolute truth.

The bullet shattered.  The under wire bent. But still intact, it contained the bullet fragments.  

When I finally pulled the under wire from my flesh, a gush of blood and several little black fragments came pouring out.

I didn’t understand until someone explained it to me later, that a .22 caliber bullet will shatter if it hits anything solid.

Thank God!

A potentially deadly shot resulted in a purely superficial flesh wound.

Later, I would look at that under wire and marvel at how much of it must have gone into me.

It doesn’t matter that it was a flesh wound, it hurt!


But, not at that moment.


Nothing registered on me, but the situation we were in and the fact that time was running out.

I knew that I had been shot and that I might not be able to get help.


I didn’t yet know that the wire had caught the bullet.

So, I had to push the envelope.

I remember telling him that there was a gun in the house and I knew where it was, and if he didn’t leave…if he harmed her one more time…. I was going to kill him…dead.

In the end, he ran out and I was able to call 911.


HOWEVER,

When I speak of courage, though, I am not speaking of myself.


Although I had a flash of thought that we could both be killed, I don’t think I fully understood how dangerous the situation was.


It wasn’t until a few days later, that it really hit me… that we truly could have been killed.

So, I don’t know if what I did could actually be called “courage.”


Most of what I did was react unconsciously.


The only thing that can explain any of this… is … that it was the hand of God that saved us both.

My guardian angel really came through for me…. again.(Matt. 4:6)


Delia, on the other hand, did not get off as easily as I did.

The bullet punctured her lung, went through her liver, bounced around inside her abdomen,damaged her diaphragm, finally coming to rest up against her spinal cord.

From the moment she fell in a heap after being shot, I knew her legs were not right.

 As soon as I was able to ask her how she was, she told me that she couldn’t feel her legs.

The police arrived and the ambulance took us to the hospital.

She couldn’t move her legs.

I spent a long 24 hours not able to see her, since she was in an “intermediate care unit.”

When I finally saw her, she was so serene.

It hit me at that moment… that she looked like an enchanted Princess, waiting for something to wake her up.


Even though she was horribly injured,

she was blessed that not one major organ was seriously damaged.

The lung was punctured, but that was just temporary.

The bullet missed all major arteries in the liver.

The hand of God is shown, again. Glory be to God!

It wasn’t until I spoke with the Spine surgeon that I realized that Delia still couldn’t move her right leg at all.

I guess up until that point I was so grateful that she was alive, that I automatically assumed her paralysis was temporary.


 

I mean, at that point . . . on what basis can you begin to UNDERSTAND permanent?

 

And the pain.

The way she explained it to me was that a belt of fire was tightening around her middle.

Pain so terrible, my stoic little girl couldn’t stand it.

To relieve the terrible, searing fire in her gut, she had a “pain pump,” a button she could push to release a powerful pain reliever every 8 minutes when she needed it.

And she needed it.

There was a moment when I realized that the doctor was saying she might never walk again.


It’s likely that the damage to the spine was done the moment that the hot bullet hit the spinal cord, and there probably wouldn’t be much improvement.–

She won’t walk.

But, NO! I wouldn’t accept that!

In the next couple of hours,I fully realized, how wonderfully blessed we both were to be alive. . . and how blessed she has always been her whole life.

I knew, in my spirit, that she was healed already, by the stripes of Jesus.(Isaiah 53:5) (1Peter 2:24)

I believed it, but I struggled with all my being to know it.

I put my hands on her leg, and I declared with more power than I knew I possessed..that this mountain WILL be cast into the sea, completely and absolutely.

Every thing about it will be resolved.

She will be completely healed, physically and psychologically.

She will not be in pain for the rest of her life.

She will be completely healed, she will walk again.


Even three days after being shot, she had a beautiful smile… through the pain.

 

In the next few days and weeks on the hard grueling path to mobility, watching my daughter’s strong determination to walk again…

I finally realized the meaning of the word courage.



It wasn’t easy and, it hasn’t gotten any easier with the passage of time.


It was hard for her to push through her pain and make those legs work, when they didn’t even want to move.

 

It was almost unbearable for me to watch her struggle through that.

I wanted to run to her and grab her up, and hold her…I wanted to take away the pain and injury, to make it all better.

It was so hard to step back and allow her put forth the monumental effort that it took to walk again.


One day, she was working hard to lift her feet and climb up the rehabilitation center’s long, steep staircase.


As the physical therapist climbed behind her, picking up her foot as needed,

moving her leg when she absolutely couldn’t,

I could see the intense concentration on her face,

and how she positively willed each muscle to move.

I was taking video footage of her efforts. I  had to stop as she started back down the stairs, because the emotions became so stark and so raw, I could not continue.

I went home the next day, in one of my rare whirling trips to shower and grab a change of clothes and maybe a night’s rest.

I stayed there with her for five weeks, I couldn’t bring myself to leave her.


During that trip, I decided to make a video instead of sleep.

I wanted to make a video that would help her to see that she COULD do anything through Christ.

That it wasn’t just a phrase.

It was real!


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Delia’s Climb (Sung by Miley Cyrus)


Each day was a battle which was fought and won by inches.

There were days that everything was bleak and I had to grab her and tell her, “You have to get a grip on yourself now.

There are times that you have to grab hold of your faith because you just don’t have any other choice.

And this is one of those times!”


When she entered the rehabilitation center,

she had declared that she

would walk out on her own two feet.


I was quick to tell her that she might be in a wheel chair because hospitals don’t want you to fall and hurt yourself so near the end of your stay.

Immediately, I chastised myself for having a moment of doubt.

How difficult it is to keep your faith, when everything that you see and experience in the world around you,

tells you that what you are hoping and praying for

just isn’t going to happen!

And I had my own psychological struggles.

I may have escaped physical pain and injury, but certainly sustained mental anguish.

I think of the thing that has made it hardest for both of us to deal with this horrendous incident…

that the shooter is my own step-father,

the man who married my mother when she was pregnant by another man,

took me in when I was 4 years old…

when he didn’t have to,

who raised me like I was his own child,

and gave me a place in his own family..

who continued to have a relationship with me and my children after he divorced my mother…

and after she died,

the man who cared more about my daughter probably more than he cared for anyone else in the world (I thought)…

through a deliberate act of the devil..

this man tried to kill my baby and almost succeeded.

In one moment, with one unexplainable act, he has changed the lives of more people than I can count.


Throughout this ordeal, my ideas about courage have changed.

Even though it took courage to remain calm during the chaos that ensued immediately after the shooting, which she did…

It also took courage…

to make it through the first horrible waves of pain…

to move her toes that first time….

to take those first steps by herself…

to walk out on her own to feet 21 days later

to walk, to run, to endure…


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Still Standing (sung by Monica)



Besides all that…


It has taken even more courage to face the 532nd day that she has not seen that complete complete healing…

and to have to realize that the pain hasn’t gone away.


I know that it will, and so does she.


I know that, one day, she will wake up and she will not be in pain.

I know that, one day, she won’t have to concentrate with all her might to make her ankle work, that she will feel the breeze blowing against her leg.


I know that one day we will be praising and giving the Glory to God for her healing.


We both have faith that this is going to happen…



But until that time, she wakes up everyday, and tackles her life…
pursuing a University education,
creating art and doing her work through the pain…
despite the effort it takes just for her to move…

with determination, strength and..

courage.

A Dream Come True

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Isa 53:5--But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed.

1Pet. 2:24--who Himself bore our sins in His own body on the tree, that we, having died to sins, might live for righteousness—by whose stripes you were healed.


Matt. 4:6--and said to Him, “If You are the Son of God, throw Yourself down. For it is written: ‘ He shall give His angels charge over you,’and,‘ In their hands they shall bear you up,Lest you dash your foot against a stone.’”

 

 

 

 

 




Job Interview Questions to Ask a Worship Leader

November 9th, 2011 by Colleen Foshee

What questions do you think are most important when a church is hiring a Worship Leader?

I believe this is one of the most important leadership positions.

What would you ask if you had the chance?