If you’re like most women my age, at some point in your life you’ve heard a guy say, “If you love me, you’ll….”
Thankfully, I was raised by wise parents who warned me ahead of time that amorous young men were going to try that line on me, as well as others, to convince me to give to them what I was saving for the lucky man who would actually prove his love for me by making me his wife one day!
So a few years ago, when I read Jesus’s words, “If you love me, you will keep my commandments” (John 14:15), I naturally believed that I had to keep His commandments to prove to Him that I love Him.
But now, I don’t believe that’s what Jesus meant at all. After all, why would God need proof to know what’s going on in my heart, if He’s God? Scripture is filled with assurances that God sees right through what we do and say, and right into our hearts, where the truth lies. (Proverbs 21:2, 1 Samuel 16:7)
Good Fruit = Good Tree

Healthy fruit is evidence of a healthy tree
When I was growing up, we’d travel out to California every summer to visit my grandparents, who had the most magnificent backyard orchard and gardens. Lemons, oranges, plums, figs, dates — I was fascinated by the way those trees produced such glorious, delicious fresh fruit we didn’t have to buy at the grocery store!
But have you ever seen a fruit tree that’s unhealthy? One that’s perhaps termite-ridden, or infested with blight, or rotting from the inside out? No amount of fertilization, no perfect balance of sun and rain, is going to make that unhealthy tree grow healthy fruit unless you can get rid of the issues that are making it unhealthy. If not, disease will overtake that poor tree until you end up tearing it out from the roots and tossing it in a fire, because it’s not good for much else. After all the work you’ve got to put into a fruit tree, to see it end up in a pile of firewood would be a sad day, but what else are you going to do if the tree has become worthless? (Matthew 7:15-23)

A healthy fruit tree will produce a bounty capable of blessing many!
Now, a healthy fruit tree? That’s a tree that’s going to bear an abundance of delicious, juicy fruit for its master. With the right weather conditions, and protection from pests and other diseases, he’s going to be a very happy gardener, with plenty of bounty left over to bless others with after he’s had his fill! Even if the weather conditions aren’t great for a period of time, a healthy fruit tree will likely survive the crisis and bounce back eventually with some tender loving care. That tree’s going to bear fruit again and again as long as it lives. (Luke 6:43-49)
“As Long As There’s Hope…”
Let’s say you’ve got a fruit tree that seems healthy, but it’s not bearing fruit, and hasn’t for a few years. After doing some poking around, looking for evidence of the problem, you find that it’s just simply not bearing fruit. So, rather than cut it down, you’re going to put some more work into it, fertilize it, give it a chance, and see what happens. After a year, if it’s still not bearing fruit, you’ll have to cut it down to make room for a new tree. This is an orchard, after all, not a park. (Luke 13:1-9)
I believe what Jesus meant when he said to His disciples, “If you love me, you’ll keep my commandments,” was that if I love Him, you’re going to see the fruit of that love. It’s just going to happen naturally, as an outflow of my healthy love for Him. And that fruit is going to bless other people, is going to feed other people, and is going to reflect God’s work in me as the Master Gardener. (John 15:1-3)
If there’s no fruit, if I’m not keeping Jesus’s commandments, then there’s something wrong with my heart. It could be that I’ve been attacked by an infestation of some sort, or it could be that I don’t really don’t love Him after all — even if I believe I do. (Matthew 7:15-23)
What do you think?
The Fruit of the Spirit:
The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the sinful nature with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.
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Michelle Quillin writes for Love Covers All, and co-owns New England Multimedia and New England HD with her husband, Scott Quillin